If you’ve ever considered a boudoir session but weren’t sure if it’s right for you, allow me to share my top six reasons why it might just be the perfect choice.
At Artistrie Co., I’ve had the privilege of photographing women from all walks of life—each with her own story, style, and reason for stepping in front of the camera. Through my lens, I strive to celebrate self-love, body acceptance, and the quiet power of being seen.
Whether you’re marking a milestone, entering a new chapter, or simply craving a moment to reconnect with yourself, a boudoir session can be a beautiful and transformative experience.
All boudoir photos by Artistrie Co.
There’s no more meaningful reason to book a boudoir session than to celebrate you. Whether you’re marking a milestone—like a wedding, birthday, postpartum transformation, personal triumph, or even navigating a life-altering diagnosis or procedure—a boudoir session offers a deeply personal way to honor your journey and embrace your beauty as it is, right now.
One of my clients described her postpartum session this way:
“For me, it was a gift that allowed me to make space for myself during the season of life I was in. This shoot led me back home to honor and love myself again.”
That reflection captures exactly what I hope to create for every woman I photograph: a space to feel seen, celebrated and truly beautiful, no matter the chapter she’s in.
In the midst of everyday responsibilities, a boudoir session becomes something truly rare: a luxurious escape designed entirely around you. From the moment you arrive, you’re cared for—no to-do lists, no expectations, just space to relax, indulge and feel your most beautiful self.
Professional hair and makeup are typically included with every session, tailored to your personal style and vision. Whether you’re dreaming of soft and romantic or bold and glamorous, your stylist will bring your look to life, making it the perfect excuse to plan a night out afterward.
Before your session begins, I’ll hang your wardrobe, pour your beverage of choice, and curate a playlist that matches your vibe. During the shoot, you don’t need to know a single pose. I’ll guide you through every movement with gentle direction, making sure you look and feel incredible from head to toe.
One of the most powerful outcomes of a boudoir session isn’t the photos—it’s how you feel when you see yourself through a new lens. My mission as a boudoir photographer is to reflect back your strength, beauty, and confidence—often in ways you may have never imagined.
We live in a culture that constantly tells women we’re not enough. That we need to lose a few more pounds, cover our wrinkles, hide our stretch marks, or shrink ourselves to fit into a narrow standard of beauty.
To all of that, I say: enough.
You are enough, exactly as you are. And if that doesn’t feel true just yet, my hope is that by the end of your session, it will.
Yes, stepping in front of the camera can feel vulnerable. But on the other side of that vulnerability is something extraordinary: confidence, self-acceptance, and maybe even joy. One of my recent clients put it beautifully:
“This experience made me feel sexy in a way I never thought I could. I’ve struggled with my weight and being comfortable in my own skin for a long time. I’ve gained about 20 pounds in the last two years and for the first time ever, am starting to feel comfortable in my body. These photos helped reaffirm that a healthy, happy body is so much better than one afraid to eat.”
Remember the joy of playing dress-up as a kid? A boudoir session is your grown-up permission slip to tap into that same spirit of creativity and fun. Whether you’re channeling your inner goddess, embracing bold sensuality, or simply exploring a side of yourself that rarely gets to shine—this is your space to play.
One of my clients once told me, “I asked myself: what would I wear in my wildest dreams? And then I did just that.” I think about that often.
Your boudoir wardrobe can be as daring, romantic, minimal, or extravagant as you like. This is your chance to embody a persona you don’t always get to express—and there’s so much freedom in that.
And for the record: boudoir doesn’t have to mean lingerie. You can wear an oversized sweater, your partner’s button-down, a dramatic robe—or absolutely nothing at all. It’s entirely up to you.
Need a little inspiration? You can browse some of my favorite lingerie and wardrobe pieces on my Amazon Storefront.
Boudoir photos aren’t just for today. They’re a timeless reflection of who you are in this season of life. Whether displayed in a handcrafted album or tucked away in a keepsake box, your images become a lasting reminder of your strength, beauty, and growth.
Yes, these photos can absolutely make an unforgettable gift for your partner—but the most powerful way to approach your session is as a gift to yourself. One that celebrates your story, your body, and your worth—right here, right now.
And hey—consider it future proof that you were hot. Your grandkids won’t believe it, but the photos won’t lie.
While the end result is a collection of stunning, empowering images, the experience itself is just as memorable. A boudoir session is full of laughter, movement, connection—and plenty of moments that make you feel like the most radiant version of yourself.
Expect fun music, a relaxed vibe, and lots of genuine laughter along the way. I’ll guide you through every pose (yes, I demo them too—awkward faces and all), so you’ll never feel unsure or alone. And if you’re wondering… yes, my cheesy jokes are part of the package.
It’s a little silly, a little sexy, and totally unforgettable.
For those of you new to the concept of doing a boudoir photo session, here are some of the basics:
At Artistrie Co., a boudoir session is more than just a photoshoot—it’s a celebration of femininity, self-expression, and empowerment.
In today’s world, boudoir photography is about more than just capturing images; it’s about fostering self-love, body positivity, and embracing your inner goddess.
During our sessions, you have the freedom to dress however makes you feel most comfortable, whether that’s in lingerie, partially nude, or fully clothed. Whatever you choose, my goal is to create elegant, timeless art that showcases your beauty and confidence in the most natural light possible.
The term “boudoir” originates from the French word for a woman’s bedroom or private chambers, evoking intimacy and elegance.
At Artistrie Co., our sessions are thoughtfully set in sun-drenched vintage lofts and carefully selected hotel suites that feel both elevated and inviting. We prioritize natural light, neutral tones, and minimalist spaces that allow you to be the focal point.
Our modern approach to boudoir is less about ornate furniture and more about creating a calm, luminous environment where your individuality shines.
At Artistrie Co., we celebrate individuality and self-expression—inviting you to wear pieces that feel like you.
While many clients choose lingerie, it’s by no means a requirement. Our aesthetic leans toward natural, effortlessly seductive imagery, and we often encourage incorporating everyday wardrobe staples that add a sense of ease and authenticity.
Think: a crisp white button-down, a favorite knit sweater, or a well-loved denim jacket. These personal touches bring texture and depth to your photos—whether worn on their own or layered with lingerie—and create imagery that’s both timeless and uniquely yours.
Feeling inspired to celebrate yourself? I’d love to create something beautiful with you. Whether you’re in Chicago or planning a visit, let’s connect and start planning your boudoir experience.
Email me at ashley@artistrieco.com or reach out through my contact page to begin your journey.
Your story deserves to be seen—and I can’t wait to help you tell it.